Reproduction is one of main objectives during creation of family therefore it is always noted in a big way. Happy parents at first can guess what difficulties expect them ahead only.
According to stories of the senior generations it is quite difficult to experience that parental responsibility which falls on each person after appearance of the kid.
It should be notedIt should be noted that changes in the relations after the birth of the child happen in each family. Practically each couple begins to notice for itself change of behavior and sometimes the running chill in relationship. As a rule, it occurs for several reasons:
1. Routine. Any family does not do without such phenomenon. With the advent of the child, young parents throughout a long time should refuse the habitual hobbies, carrying out active days off or visit of night institutions with friends. Everyday life and days off already practically do not differ among themselves and proceed in the same mode.
2. Dissatisfaction of requirements. Most often needs of the wife differ from needs of the husband at an initial stage. The spouse so strongly is tired with the child and execution of houseworks that she often just does not have forces on finding time for the beloved husband and just to stay with it nearby and to learn as there passed it day. In the same time of spouses, coming from work, without receiving what he wants throughout a long time, can begin to show the discontent. On this soil most often there are scandals, misunderstanding and other unpleasant consequences.
3. Physical changes in appearance. As a rule, after the delivery the appearance of the woman changes. After rapid enrollment of weight, skin stretches and loses the elasticity. Of course, to restore a former look, it is necessary to have patience, but at the husband sometimes it comes to an end earlier, than the spouse begins work on herself. Except change of physical data, in connection with infinite employment and the saved-up fatigue, at the woman PTSR (post-traumatic syndrome or a postnatal depression) can be shown.
Many young parents need time to apprehend such changes, the child was in the plans of family. But sometimes expectations differ from reality. In most cases spouses begin to experience difficulties and in the sexual plan as against the background of constant duties and problems for desire there is no place left any more.