Acquaintance to girls — business difficult, and if it concerns acquaintances on the street. That the first communication was crowned with success, it is necessary to understand female psychology at least a little.
How to get acquainted on the street with the girl and as to interest her — read further in article.
How to draw attention of the girl on the street
To draw attention, it is not necessary to do anything supernatural. Of course, if you put on in bright clothes or will start singing, the girl precisely will pay attention to you, however will hardly want to communicate.
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Pay attention to three main rules of the attractive man:
- Tidy and stylish look. Always you wear the clean and ironed clothes. Do not forget also about style. It is optional to watch fashionable trends, but the frank bad taste will frighten off any lady. Try to be always attractive to an opposite sex.
- Sure gait. You do not hurry and be not nervous. Get acquainted quietly, without excess odyorgivaniye. Women are attracted by self-assured men.
- Goodwill. It is not necessary to pose as an aggressive alpha male. You look to the pleasant lady in the face and smile.
Carrying out the listed rules, you in 90% of cases will be able to draw attention of the girl and to strike up acquaintance with her.
What needs to be done at a meeting with the unfamiliar girl on the street
Human relations — business thin therefore there is no certain algorithm of acquaintance on the street. Nevertheless psychologists select several rules of successful communication with the stranger.
How to get acquainted
If you met the girl on the street, approach it closer. You do not hurry and do not run up behind. The main trick at acquaintance — to look the pleasant girl fool in the face. You have to meet views. Thus, you for fractions of a second come into nonverbal contact which in many respects defines success of further communication. The best option is to approach quietly, perhaps, to overtake it and to start talking.
Important! You do not shout following and the more so not to a podsvistyvayta from outside. Many guys try to catch thus attention of the girl, but she at best will try to escape from such acquaintance.
However do not stop it violently and do not block the road. If the girl hurries or is not adjusted to communicate, to look for other candidate for acquaintance better.
What to begin a conversation with
The first that it is necessary to tell the girl on the street — Hi!. The politeness will never be superfluous. Excellent psychological reception — to begin acquaintance with a question. People subconsciously feel the need to answer therefore they do not refuse communication.
So, skilled pikaper advise:
- to tell directly that she interested you;
- to ask the road somewhere;
- to suggest to carry out it to the house;
- if it bears heavy packages, to offer the help.
And here what should be avoided, so this cliche. Phrases from the category The Son-in-law Is Not Necessary to Your Mother? at best will amuse her. Of course, it is possible to give similar phrases as a joke, expecting sense of humour of the girl. However not all understand such jokes. To get acquainted thus it is too risky.
Important! Surely you monitor reaction of the girl. If she shows obvious malevolence, it is better to apologize and retire.
Subjects for a talk
That for the first communication not so it is a lot of. Here everything depends on what you began a conversation with. For example, if the stranger comes back home late at night, ask whether it is terrible to go her one to such time.
It is not necessary to hide intentions to get acquainted. Ask the girl, what is her name, than she is engaged. If she is ready to communicate, then will ask a reciprocal question. In that case just tell about yourself.
How to behave at it
Behave surely. Worst of all men who are nervous look. It causes only pity. Try to smile more. It is possible to raise at it a smile, having told an innocent joke.
Show it that it is special. Present a flower or give a compliment. Almost all, with rare exception, want to feel the uniqueness. Thus, it is possible to attract her positive emotions and reciprocal interest.
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Than to finish a meeting
Adequate time for acquaintance — 5–15 minutes. In the final of a conversation tell that would like to communicate still. Do not think out occasions to take the phone number or to sit in cafe. Tell directly that it was pleasant to you and you would not want to lose its contacts.
How to continue communication with the girl
There are several acceptable options how to continue communication:
- to subscribe to it on social networks;
- to take the phone number and to continue correspondence in any messenger;
- to invite to an appointment at once after acquaintance or in the nearest future.
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It is not so difficult to get acquainted with the pleasant girl on the street if the nobility as it is correct to behave. The tidy, benevolent and self-assured young man will surely cope with this task.