The destiny of the loving people is joyful and sad at the same time: becoming attached to each other, they can give the love and beat the most sick. The last is connected with a widespread stereotype "Loves - means, will endure".
Instruction
1. If you realize that you unfairly offend the guy, find the reason of your rage. Perhaps, fatigue, lack of attention from its party or your underestimated self-assessment affects. Therefore afford rest, it is desirable to do it separate from time to time. Do not load yourself with daily work so that at the end of the day you were ready to drop. And also be not too exacting to the guy: your claims can arise because of the overestimated expectations.
2. If something irritates, and you know that you just about will pour out the anger on the loved one, it is better to be removed as soon as possible from the room, motivating leaving with the fact that you should be alone. Working by the principle "from eyes down with", you will not offend the favourite guy splash in emotions, and also will be able to take breath, being in loneliness in the neighboring room. There you can make anything – to kick a pillow or to count to thirty, etc.
3. But an opportunity has "to run away" not so often, unpleasant situations can occur anywhere. In this case you should use some psychological receptions. When the person is on a platoon, the discharge is necessary for it. If you feel that all patience is exhausted, do any manual work – wash the dishes, wipe mirrors or take out garbage on foot on a ladder.
4. Whether there is among your acquaintances or relatives a quick-tempered rowdy with whom all relatives cry? If yes, pay attention to his behavior and also to that, the close people who got in the heat of the moment take it how hard. In anger of people can tell a lot of insults, but, having exhausted, calms down and becomes silk. But scars from similar behavior remain for the rest of life. Assessing a situation from outside, you will be easier to study on others mistakes and not to allow the.