Girls sometimes very much miss the darling. At the same time it is not important how many days last their separation: week, month or year. Sometimes the oppressive state can reach such degree that prevents to live therefore it is necessary to fight against it.
Instruction
1. If you left darling or he is far from you, in such situations the psychologists meet in one – it is necessary to be uttered. How exactly you will do it, depends only on you. It is possible to write letters in which you will state everything that is created at heart. At the same time it is not important whether you decide to send them to the darling or not. The most important, write. The conversation with the girlfriend or any other loved one will also help to solve a problem. Pronouncing experiences, you thereby save yourself from the certain feeling of emptiness which arose because of the absence of darling. Therefore you will have though some real idea of the relations.
2. It is also possible to try to distract from a problem. Find to yourself occupation which will help to distract for a while from sad thoughts. Do not perceive separation as something terrible. Believe, all relations experience certain difficulties. Separation is anotheranother way to check sincerity of your feelings. Be not obsessed with experiences. Try to distract, so you will not notice that how there will pass time, and you will meet darling again. Now, when it is absent nearby, at you appeared a little free time therefore it is possible to begin to be engaged in some new business: register in fitness, buy the subscription in gym, begin to embroider, draw, read some interesting book. Shopping – is better medicine for the lonely girl. Acquisition of new things will surely improve mood and will raise your self-assessment.
3. If your feelings are not mutual, to speak about the relations simply senselessly. As they are absent simply, the solution can be only one – find to yourself occupation which will be able to distract you. It can be a hobby or full immersion in work. Of course, first it will be rather difficult to make it, but you should force yourself. Yes, to force, otherwise it will not turn out in any way.
4. The lack of reciprocity negatively affects a self-assessment of the person. He becomes closed. At the person all desire to get acquainted with an opposite sex vanishes. You should not be obsessed with one man. Understand that feelings which are not mutual will gradually die away, and they will be succeeded by new love which will be able to make happy you. Of course, separation – it is always heavy, but it is necessary to try to get it together and to make every effort for adjusting the life.