You will surprise with an age difference between spouses nobody any more. However it does not mean that partners will never have difficulties because of it. Different mentality, various purposes, a different social status – sometimes not easy not to notice it.
Instruction
1. You grew on different movies, music and books. Between you there can be a cultural abyss. However nothing prevents you to build through it the bridge from favourite works. Old it will not be obligatory bad, and new – superficial. You share with each other novels and movies, you find what will be interesting to both of you and together open for yourself new works.
2. Concepts about leisure usually differ at twenty-year-old and forty-year-old people. The young wife and the mature husband can not divide hobbies of each other. You learn to trust the partner, periodically allowing the girl to go to club with girlfriends, and the man – to the dacha with the friend. Also there are many entertainments which can be pleasant to all, irrespective of age. You go to the cinema and theater, attend exhibitions, travel. Fulling of the house in an embrace under a plaid is also available at any age.
3. Often the difference in appearance prevents to enjoy joint life. Younger partner, as a rule, looks more attractive. If it confuses you, try to correspond to him. You cannot look younger, but can achieve good results by means of regular trainings, visits of the cosmetologist and correctly picked up clothes. Achieve that you began to be pleasant to yourself, and do not pay attention to age in the passport.
4. Quite often partners with a big age difference set before themselves the different purposes in life. To one at this stage the career is more important, and another wants to create the cozy dwelling, someone dreams of the child, and someone – to travel and see more the world. Look for compromises, go on a concession each other and think out common goals for your family. Perhaps, the mature man who dreams of the child could undertake the most part of efforts about the baby or employ the nurse to allow the spouse to climb an office ladder as she wishes that.
5. Public opinion sometimes is capable to spoil the relations between spouses. Avoid communication with people who like to remind you of an age difference at your couple if it is unpleasant to you. You for certain will have friends who accept you such what you are. Try to spend the most part of time with them.
6. You love each other. If you sincerely admire and be interested in the partner, it will help you to overcome disagreements which can arise, get rid at you of misunderstanding and keep your relations for a long time.