The doctor from popular American series claims that all lie. And though the subsequent succession of events in a series usually proves case of his words, in real life each person wants that did not lie to it. Also can try to obtain the truth in any ways.
- - books on psychology.
1. The annoying is when close people hide the truth. But often they do it not from the evil but because are afraid to upset, upset you, to lose your arrangement. That it did not occur, your family has to know that anyway you will like and to support them. Do not hesitate to remind them of it. Such words will help you to achieve the truth much more effectively, than reading others mail or survey of contents of bags.
2. Read books on psychology in which characteristic mimic movements, changes of tone of a voice, gestures indicating that your interlocutor lies are described. After you found out that the opponent tells a lie, is not necessary to him openly to declare it – it can spoil your relations for a long time. Better by means of a set of the specifying questions to force it to tell you the truth.
3. Try to discuss all important issues face to face. Statistically, by phone the interlocutors lie each other for 10% more often than at personal contact. Strangely enough, but at exchange of SMS messages or e-mails, people lie each other less than if they were in one room. Therefore there is nothing bad in discussing a ticklish situation by means of letters. Both you, and at your opponent will have time to carefully consider the words and to find an explanation for acts instead of telling lies.
4. If you want to achieve the truth not from the loved one, and from malefactors, then it will be correct if you ask the help for competent authorities. Address to the District Department of Internal Affairs, and the prosecutor will defend your truth in court. If after court session of the truth all of you equally did not achieve, do not hesitate to address in a higher institution, or if your history is interesting to the press, try to achieve that told about you on television, or printed in the newspaper. Such measures can force court to revise the decision, and you will achieve what was wanted.