Treason of the husband is not only blow to the ego, but also disappointment in own relations. It is very heavy to decide what future waits for your family after that. Of course, everything depends only on how you want to live further - to forgive or leave. Try to make the correct decision.
Instruction
1. If you understand that you will be able to forgive treason and want to continue to live with the beloved, it is necessary to understand motives of his treachery. Perhaps, the man considers that sex on the party is ""anything special"" and so there lives most of families. Try to explain to him that you do not accept such state of affairs and fidelity for you - not simply beautiful word. Let know to the husband that forgave him for the first and for the last time. If he really loves you, then similar any more will never repeat.
2. Perhaps, your relations worsened recently, and feelings cooled down. It often is the reason of unfaithfulness because the man does not feel that any more than passion which was earlier. If you cooled down to him physically, then it could push your husband on such act. The rare proximity forces the man to think that sex should be won. Therefore after gaining other woman he begins to feel like the hero. Inhale new life in your family relations and the situation will change to the best.
3. Crisis of middle age at men quite often is followed by unfaithfulness. During this period they become not so sexually active as they earlier, are not so attractive (according to them). The man wants to prove first of all to himself that still well and to worry there is nothing. Perhaps, you should endure it. Your husband will be acquired and will love you with a new force. Calm yourself that nobody, except you, is necessary to him. It is just feature of all male.
4. It is quite probable that in life of your husband there was some large failure, and you could not support him properly. A time of the man behave as children, and perceive the woman to whom they trust as mother. You were very necessary to him and were not near. Therefore he decided to find support in other place. Next time be more provident and more attentive to the husband.