The rare woman does not want that her husband was careful, generous and attentive. Unfortunately, ideal men are not much, but you can even create from the most crude rude fellow of the gallant gentleman. To achieve from the man of the desirable, it is necessary to add a little cunning to the relations.
Instruction
1. You praise the husband as often as possible. You have to show him the approval at the slightest pretext. In such a way you lift to the man a self-assessment. Having accustomed the husband that he does everything perfectly, you will be able to manipulate with ease it. To force the man to do that you need - to cost enough without praise. He will begin to worry and will try to achieve approval. At this moment tell that it will be very pleasant to you if it helps you to make the necessary affairs. It concerns also gifts. React to any trifle so as if your husband is Father Frost who inexpressibly surprised you and guessed your desire. After that the man will seek to please you as often as possible.
2. Learn to save if the husband does not like to spend for you money. Some time show ability to correctly spend money. Having convinced of what you the economical hostess and all means spend only for the public good, he will begin to trust you the money fearlessly. Now, having gained trust of the husband, you can sometimes afford expenditure which concern only you. But be accurate and do not spend large sums. Believe, to justify purchase of a fur coat with the risen in price grain it will not turn out. Also you remember that emergence of new things needs to be explained somehow. Therefore it is better to postpone the small sums and to add saved up to what the husband on purchase of your things will give then. Such economy in own favor will be less noticeable.
3. Try not to criticize the husband on each trifle. If the man gets used that you in most cases agree with him and support, then he will begin to listen to you. If you want to inspire something in the man, then make it softly, advising. After adoption of the decision by him, surely praise and pretend that it was his idea. Always show to the man and your acquaintances that he is an owner in your house. The husband will be proud of himself, and you will be able to influence him, doing without the conflicts.