"He took away all the things and left to mother. Told that did not wait - he will not return. There passed the love. I cannot look at these empty cases! - Inna cries in phone. - To me it is so bad what is wantedwhat is wanted to die". They lived in marriage seven quite happy years. At least, so it seemed to it. And now everything came to an end. How to live further if the husband does not love any more?
Instruction
1. Let's make a reservation at once that not the husband, but the ex-husband. There is a basic difference between the spouse and "eksy". The first – in the present, the second – in the past. It is necessary to draw a line, to divide life on "to" and "later". Not meaning that on "black Tuesday" the life ended, and that when it left, you began a new round of events and days. The task is to learn to live without it and to be at the same time happy, strangely enough now it sounds. Understanding and understanding will come much later when you are able to think and draw conclusions on everything quietly. For now it is enough let mechanically, but to implement the following recommendations.
2. Remember an old joke: "If the husband left to another, still it is unknown who was lucky!" Actually, whether everything was so smooth at you? Did you constantly quarrel? Perhaps, it changed you? Earned a little? Now such period that you should not idealize the former spouse at all. Especially as you are worthy bigger.
3. Throw everything, borrow money if they are absent, and go to a holiday. It is proved that two weeks in five-star hotel on the bank of the warm sea nullify practically all warm dramas. Noncommittal holiday romance or at least hot flirtation are extremely recommended.
4. Upon return begin to resolve financial issues, including the section of property. Do not shelve business: now the ex-husband has an increased feeling of fault which you with ease can turn into additional square meters and diamonds. And if he as poor as a church mouse then to cry there is nothing at all.
5. Arrange solemn burning or at least carrying out on a garbage can of all things which remind you of it. Also do not feel sorry for a convenient ottoman with matrasiky of a buckwheat peel! Understand, right now you can be engaged in business of which so long dreamed: whether it be Spanish language courses, reading for the night or a travel on clubs. Live for yourself and rejoice to every day, regardless of that, one you or with someone.