The ability to talk to guys is given not everyone. Even to the most beautiful girl at guys interest vanishes if she cannot conduct a conversation, constantly is silent and is lost during the conversation. Therefore it is necessary to try to get rid of complexes and to study communication art.
It is required to you
- - books;
- - mirror;
- - guys/guy.
Instruction
1. Convince yourself that you need to learn to communicate with parnyamidlya the beginnings be adjusted psychologically on achievement of a goal. You have to have very strong desire of to become sociable with guys. Several times a day mentally imagine a picture as you perfectly conduct a conversation with an opposite sex.
2. Develop the correct speech and enrich dictionary zapaschtoba to be sociable, read more classical literature, remember interesting quotes, jokes or jokes. Get rid of filler words if you have them, and do not use obscene words at all. Accurately state the thoughts, train on the relatives and in front of the mirror, watching the look and intonation.
3. UlybaytesVsem the known lyrics from the animated film "Crumb Raccoon" - "friendship begins with a smile" - give a valuable advice. Always begin acquaintance to the guy in good mood, welcome the person or the company with a smile. It is unlikely guys will want to approach gloomy and too serious girl, it will only frighten off them.
4. Be not afraid of the first to begin you razgovorobretit self-confidence to become sociable with guys. It is possible to prepare introductory phrases in advance. For example, begin with the fact that you the other day watched the new movie or were at a concert of the famous group.
5. You say with the interlocutor about what is interesting to an emurazuznayta at the guy who was pleasant to you about his hobby and ask the questions directing at the developed answer. Sincerely be interested in details of his hobby. If your interests are similar, then it is additional plus for communication – more general subjects open.
6. Be able slushatneobkhodimo not only to learn to communicate with guys, but also to become the good listener. In the unfamiliar company you watch closely the course of a conversation and at the right time insert appropriate remarks. And in a conversation in private do not interrupt the interlocutor, let's it express, nod and smile to it.