The person can be very successful and dear in society, but if it lacks emotional support of the house, he will feel very badly. Emotional rejection in families, unfortunately, meets more often. Sometimes the relation sharply changes, but communication gradually more and more cool becomes more often, will not reach a certain degree of dispassionateness yet.
Instruction
1. If you noticed that you are rejected by the spouse or the partner, immediately take measures. If to make it in time, the relations can be restored. First of all, it is necessary to get to the bottom of the reason of cooling and the arisen dispassionateness. Most often, the problem is that you find not enough time for communication with darling or communicate not on those topics which it interest. Usually actually rejection arises after the small conflict, against the background of cooling of the relations. Such conflict can become fatal for the relations therefore it needs to be solved so that not to infringe upon the interests of your partner. The relations stand such victims.
2. Besides, the best family psychologists recommend at least hour a week to devote to discussion of the relations. Take each other by hands and tell what within a week you pleased and that upset. Then turn off the light, take the lit candle in a hand and ask the partner to tell about that he wanted to change in your behavior. Trade places, tell darling when he holds a candle that you lack emotional support, and about what lacks you in the relations, what actions of the partner or words. Then turn on the light and write down the most important problems and also ways to correct a situation.
3. If you are rejected by your child 12 years are younger, address the children's psychologist: normal, small children are very attached to parents and cannot refuse emotionally rich communication with mother and the father if the relations, in general, were not spoiled by deep offense. If you are rejected by the teenage child, especially the boy, do not take a situation very painfully, it is surmountable over time. The most frequent causes of quarrels – insufficient attention to the teenager and his desire to show the independence. Much more serious, but is more rare the found reason – when the young man is ahead of the mother or the father on the speed of development and knowledge in spheres, significant for it. For example, its knowledge of area of literature are rather deep, he reads much and if parents are not interested in book novelties, it is often difficult for it to find subjects for communication. What to make to return respect and love in the relations with the teenager? Find more time for communication with it and develop as the professional and the personality, do not focus only on life, be not limited to formal questions. The teenager will forgive for sincere unostentatious love to you even incompetence. The biggest mistake is to neglect development of the relations, not to pay attention to the increasing alienation. Further it can lead to complete misunderstanding and development of the conflict in the relations.