In life of young people there comes sooner or later the moment when they have a desire or requirement to live separately from parents, creating the "cozy nest". As an important step on the way to origin of a new home serves cohabitation with the girl.
It is required to you
- housing for cohabitation, money for economy
Instruction
1. Do you already rather long time meet the girl and would like to send your relations to more serious course? In other words, you want long ago, but do not know how to suggest it to begin cohabitation. Before talking about it to the beloved, think over various options of your future coexistence. It can be not absolutely ready you to this step yet and is better take a timeout now than after the offer is sounded and supported.
2. Read the corresponding psychological literature on relationship of the man and the woman. Prepare yourself morally for the fact that in joint life each of partners has to work on himself constantly. If not to do it, then further you and your half surely feel disharmony in the relations.
3. One of the main issues for any couple is an appearance of children. Before offering the girl joint life, think whether you are ready morally to appearance of the child, whether are ready to bring up together with it own kid. If you answered yourself this question in the affirmative, safely suggest the girl to move.
4. Count and plan the budget. Whether enough at you will be funds for purchase or renting of the certain apartment (if you already have the living space, it, certainly, changes business)?
5. If with money at you everything is normal and you are able to afford to move, begin to look for the apartment in advance. Buy the newspaper of announcements of your city, or hammer on the Internet inquiry "I will rent / I will hand over apartment in the city …". As soon as you find suitable option, look at it together with the girl. The apartment has to be pleasant to both. It is desirable at the same time that her owners allowed you to make a small renovation.
6. Talk to the girl about all everyday issues connected with cohabitation, in advance. It concerns also funds which you will allocate for housekeeping, both purchase of products, and other another daily matters which accompanies joint life of family people and loving couples.