If your relationship with men constantly comes to an end with fiasco and you were tired of futile search of the ideal partner, perhaps, you should changing a view of the ideal relations and to revise the behavior.
1. Be interested in affairs of the man. The lack of attention to career, study and hobbies of your partner quickly enough will begin to offend him, and then and will become the parting reason. But the girl who vividly is interested in how passed at darling day has every chance of the long relations. And how to arrive if affairs of the man are unclear and uninteresting? For a start define that area in which you need to begin to be guided. It is very important not to overload itself with excess data. For example, you already know that your man loves fishing. Find out what: summer, winter, with an aqualung, etc. Find information on this subject in the Internet and carefully study it. Do not try to read complex materials at once – begin from scratch. Get a special notebook in which write down the terms mentioned by the beloved, and then learn their value. Naturally, all this should be done imperceptibly. And once you will please the man with the fact that at the good level you will be able to keep up the conversation about his hobby.
2. Do not forget about feminine values. Especially it is relevant at the beginning of the relations. Do not run for the man and do not force an event. The stronger sex is attracted only by those persons who need to be won. The following council, maybe, will sound and is old-fashioned, but you should not accept expensive gifts before your relations reach higher level, and you will become the groom and the bride. Behave with advantage - it is quality valuably at all times.
3. Do not allow manifestation of roughness and disrespect from the man. Here it is not about rudeness or aggression – it is necessary to steer clear of such individuals initially. But if your beloved destroyed fridge contents, knowing that you will come late and hungry, or suggested to arrive to it by bus since to it laziness to follow car is obvious signals of the disrespectful relation. Stop such behavior and if does not help – leave better because further everything will become even worse.
4. Do not try to coquet with other men to cause jealousy or to ego-trip. For men such behavior is unacceptable and equated to treason. Makes advances to the woman who shows herself and behaves too frankly, the man can get acquainted for sex, but not for creation of family.
5. Remember: the love is not a lead. Reconcile to the fact that you cannot be together day and night. Women who seek to leash the man almost always remain lonely. Happy couples always have a personal space, free time and life out of family. You should not be dissolved in the man, but also completely it is impossible to move away. Find "golden mean" and adhere to it. Good luck to you in creation of the ideal relations!