After long or not really the novel all of you left. And now, meeting on streets or in the general companies, you cannot understand how to behave near the former young man. You should not change completely a circle of contacts and to avoid it, it is necessary to develop the line of conduct which is the most suitable for you only.
Instruction
1. Do not avoid meetings. For certain for that time which you spent together you had a large number of mutual friends and even friends. Having left, you should not think that the entrance to the former company is forbidden you. You left only one person, but did not fall out with all the friends. Therefore do not avoid meetings with them. Perhaps, at first it is really better to stay alone or to communicate only to couple of the best friends, but be not closed in yourself for a long time.
2. You are not angry with the ex-boyfriend. You should not try to touch somehow at each meeting with it it or to humiliate in the opinion of mutual friends. Time you were near it some time, so not so it also is bad. If it is heavy to you to see it, try to make less contact and to communicate. Perceive it as good acquaintance no more. If you begin to pay it a lot of attention, trying to offend or offend, it will look ridiculously and silly.
3. Try to make friends with the former young man. There are different options of succession of events. And friendship between the former beloved is possible, especially if parting happened at mutual desire both. If you decided that it is impossible to be couple at you, it does not mean yet that you will not be able to become good friends, to be support and each other support. Of course, such option will not be suitable for couples where one remained the evils and is offended after parting.
4. Do not think only of yourself. Parting is a business not of one person, but two. Talk to the ex-boyfriend, learn from him what he sees your future communication. If you were an initiator of a gap, understand its unwillingness to often see you nearby. Perhaps, it hurts it. Step aside for some time until fresh emotions cease. Remember that break in relations anyway not too pleasant event therefore think at this moment not only of yourself, kind of you were angry on the former beloved.