The question of whether friendship between the woman and the man is possible puzzled not one generation. Of course, it is simpler to communicate with the man if neither you, nor at him have no second half. Then anybody has no excess questions and claims. But often there is a situation when your friend already has a wife or the girl.
How to behave with the friend who has a wife
It is silly to sacrifice communication only because your friend has a soulmate. Of course, only in case you to it treat only as the friend. Otherwise, the woman has to understand that she can count only on a short-term affair, the novel in which on the first place there will be an official family, but not the mistress. And constant expectation, secret meetings and frequent loneliness – at all not what each woman aspires to.
Of course, the girl can hope that the man will leave family over time, but she has to think whether it is ready to destroy others happiness.
If intentions at the woman exclusively friendly, it is necessary to exclude all flirtation and manifestations of sympathy. The communication needs to be conducted as equals. You should not call your friend late at night when he spends time with the family. Besides, your communication should not hinder to the family relations. You have to treat with respect the friend's wife, regardless of that, you like her or not. In a conflict situation it is better to accept a neutral position, remembering that lovers will reconcile, and you can remain guilty. Never try to look better in the opinion of the friend, than his wife. Do not afford caustic statements to the friend's spouse. Do not criticize her behavior, appearance and habits. Never you say what you would make, being on its place. She is a wife, and you are a friend therefore it is not necessary to compare you at all, otherwise you risk to be left without communication with this married man.
What to do if the wife is jealous your friend?
It is very unpleasant when make you absolutely unreasonable claim. Of course, you should not provoke the wife to be jealous the husband of you. If you are familiar with her, try to talk and explain quietly that you are not interested in foreign husband. If you have a soulmate, meet more often families, make attempts to befriend them. If you at the moment one, do not take too much time your friend. Try to ask less it about the help, reduce communication a little for some time.
If you sincerely wish the friend good luck, you do not want to destroy his family.
Though so jealous wives meet not always. Often the woman herself understands that each person has the circle of contacts and does not limit the husband in the choice of friends. In such situation if your interests meet, you can get the faithful companion for many years. Thus, having become the friend of the family, you will save yourself from excess suspicions and will expand the circle of contacts.