Each woman dreams of love, of the serious, stable relations. All of us want all of us to care for us, preserved, protected and solved our problems. And even the most self-assured business lady, independent and independent, dreams of reciprocity, sincerity and support. But desires in the personal relations come true not at all. Partings, former offenses and treachery prevent to begin new life, to start a family and again to trust the man.
Instruction
1. Forgiveness has to become the first step on the way to happy life with darling. Forgive all men who ever offended you (including father). You do not harbor malice against them at all, do not feed and you do not raise in yourself feeling of hatred. Because that you save negative emotions in the heart, it will be worse only to you.
2. Get rid of feeling of dependence on the man who is near you. That is be able to tell at the right time the word ""no"" if something is not pleasant to you or there is no wish to do. Do not allow to manipulate yourself, avoid excessive obedience. Be self-sufficient, and then darling will respect you and to listen to your opinion.
3. In the relations it is always necessary to remember that the man and the woman think and perceive everything absolutely differently. For example, when you sincerely want to let know to it that you do not like his scattered socks about the room, the man, in turn, understands it as personal insult, and you only wanted an order. Therefore try to understand the elect, periodically putting themselves on his place.
4. It is not necessary to tell the man about as far as you are dissatisfied with the short legs, an imperfect waist or a big nose. Even if you are not ideal (that is quite normal for the terrestrial person), he should not guess it at all. You have to radiate internal confidence and superiority over other women. And then your man himself will shortly believe in your exclusiveness and will consider you ideal.
5. Ask any man what quality he most of all appreciates in the woman. And you will be answered, most likely: cunning and mind. It is really the greatest female gift which helps to operate, direct the man and also to avoid the unnecessary conflicts. Ability in time to become silent, soften a situation or to tell a tender word - here that you surely should learn for the sake of the relations.