Each girl believes that life with her future elect will be as in the fairy tale — long and happy. However the reality often appears less cloudless, not without reason say that the love boat easily crashes against life. Quarrels on trifles, fight for domination are capable to destroy even the strongest relations. How to manage to preserve love and to become ideal couple?
Instruction
1. Look for compromises. In the relations of two people it is impossible to avoid collision of opinions, disagreement in any questions, sometimes misunderstanding. Of course, it is not necessary to save negative emotions in itself, being afraid, having stated the point of view, to begin a quarrel. But it is worth learning to express the irritation, anger or offense so that not to touch darling. Avoid not constructive disputes which often develop into ugly scandals. The negative estimates, cavils raised tone and, especially, insults, will not help to understand a problem but only they will aggravate it. One more important point — sort out the relations only in private. The blurt told in the presence of the stranger touches much stronger. And beginning "blamestorming session" at relatives, you risk to turn a small quarrel into big family scandal.
2. Have own interests and hobbies. It is considered that an indispensable condition of the ideal relations is the full similarity of interests at the man and the woman. But it not absolutely so. Of course, similar religious and political views will only strengthen couple. It is also important that you equally looked at the future of the relations, had similar approach to education of children, cast in family. However everyone has to have piece of personal space, those interests and a hobby. For the woman it is an opportunity to distract, relax, realize aspiration to beauty for this reason the majority of women's hobbies are directed to production something: knitting, soap manufacture, embroidery. The man looks for in a favourite hobby one more sphere for self-realization therefore men strive for success also here. Besides, it is an opportunity to spend time in the company of adherents.
3. Pay special attention to the sensual party of the relations. It is one of pillars on which the love union keeps. Refusing to the man proximity, you refuse to him and the love. Sort out yourself, there can be you too are tired? Then it is better to divide household chores with darling, promising to thank him for the help at night. To couples which have problems in intimate life psychologists recommend to make sex one of paragraphs of own schedule, the same as campaign to the gym or manicure. The main thing is to adhere strictly to this schedule, despite headaches, drowsiness and other causes. Also it will be soon ahead of schedule!