It is known that women quite often pretend that received an orgasm even if actually it was not to upset the partner. Men try to define whether original it was the orgasm or she pretended to be. Women have no such problem, to them is always clear whether the partner received an orgasm. What to find out whether the woman pretends to be, it is possible to pay attention to some signs.
Differences of an original orgasm
The orgasm is very strong feeling therefore, testing it, the woman closes eyes. It the same, as kisses: when people kiss, they cannot hold eyes opened if take the real pleasure. Very important sign of an orgasm: during an orgasm the woman usually has a uniform reduction of muscles of a vagina and uterus, it is practically a pulsation. The man will surely feel it.
After the woman's orgasm usually relax. They become quiet, they want to lie down, sometimes even to have a sleep. If you see that the partner is active and excited after sex, she tries to prolong contact, actively talks - it is sign that it was not satisfied. During an orgasm of the woman is not able to control expression of the person, and it can take a strange form, something like a grimace as though she feels intolerable pain. It is normal, feelings which she has, really very strong. Then she will take the blissfully happy form and will enough smile, but during an orgasm her face can look quite strange. The orgasm is a feeling which is reflected in all organism. While it lasts, heartbeat considerably becomes more frequent. It does not occur if the woman only represents pleasure.
How to help the woman to receive an orgasm
Sexologists found out that to receive an orgasm only from penetrations and frictions no more than 30% of women are capable, the rest needs stimulation of a clitoris. Therefore choose such poses in which you will be able to caress it. Happens, what are you doing everything is correct, but the woman for receiving an orgasm needs a little more time. Be attentive to her feelings, watch how she behaves. To manage to have this feeling at the same time or to help it to receive its the first, it is necessary to show keenness and attention to needs of the partner.
Why women feign
If you consider that your girl feigns, then you should not take offense at her or to be disappointed in the relations with it. Try to talk to it for a start. Why she pretends to be? Some women are afraid to tell about the true desires in sex as they think that will look strange in the opinion of the partner. Sometimes they do not want men to consider them dismissed. The reasons can be also others, but anyway, it is necessary to find out why the woman represents an orgasm though does not test it. Sometimes it is useful to undergo medical examination as some diseases are capable to prevent the woman to derive pleasure from sex. Sometimes, that the woman has no above signs of an orgasm, but she feels it. A female orgasm – the thin phenomenon. At each woman it can pass a little differently. If your partner looks happy also assures you that everything be all right, then the word makes sense to take her even if you also did not notice any signs of an orgasm described here.