Treachery of the man – serious blow to the relations, love, trust and to all the rest that connects partners. The woman who was betrayed by darling feels small also crushed. It faces a serious problem – how to react to the arisen situation and how to overcome a storm of negative emotions to forget about everything and to continue to live further.
1. First of all, try to get rid of a stress and internal tension. If you calm down when you cry, give vent to tears. If the sport helps to cope with a stress to you – you go to gym.
2. Be released from a situation. Sit and think. Take a detached view of a situation and be realistic why so occurred. It is not necessary to load itself with a fault complex. If the man changed – it does not mean yet that you are guilty of everything.
3. Define in what the treason reason. Whether the man has a tendency to extramarital affairs? If darling changed you accidentally and confessed in it, to you to decide – to believe him and to forgive or at first to check reliability of his words. The reason of unfaithfulness often is in attenuation of the relations. Perhaps, your partner just lacked a variety in sexual life and therefore he sought it elsewhere.
4. Get it together. It is not necessary to make loud rows. Such behavior is justified only in one case when you accurately decided to finish the relations. Do not attack on the man with inquiries – nothing you learn new. Courageously accept the cooling fact in the relations, realize the mistakes and think whether it is possible to change something.
5. Discuss a situation with the partner. Despite all weight of this conversation, it is simply necessary. Keep calm and you speak with confidence. Let darling will feel that he can trust in you. Take an interest in its plans – whether he wants to keep the relations or it intends to leave now.
6. Take a timeout for one week. So much time is necessary for the man to realize the fault and to understand how to it it is bad without you. Go somewhere. There you will be able to consider once again how to behave further.
7. Remember that you the attractive woman. Do some shopping, register in beauty shop. Indulge yourself with a new hairstyle and fashionable dresses! Men do not change beautiful, well-groomed and clever women with whom they are happy. Add to the positive relations, make them interesting and harmonious.
8. If your partner fell in love with other woman and wants to be with her, release him. Kind of sick and unpleasantly to you was. It is not necessary to blackmail the man – allow it to be happy. Also start search of the new partner in life.
9. If you are sure that you are still loved, and treason of the man is accidental, can forgive him and forget about everything. Now it is important to endure treason consequences together. It will help you to bring the relations to new level.
10. You spend much time together. Be interested in its affairs. Start new joint habits and traditions with the partner. Constantly surprise him. Then he will not have any more a desire to seek someone elsewhere.
11. Main rule: if forgave, it is not necessary to remember treason constantly. Everything has to look so as if nothing was.