The husband without work - would seem, nothing terrible, it is temporary. But darling seems, begins to get used to inaction, in the days and at the nights is online, on interviews not to hurry. Tears in the family budget increase. The situation is heated, and prior to the conflict nearby. It is known that the woman in a critical situation adapts and finds a way out of it much quicker than the vulnerable man. Job loss, is, of course, a huge stress for it. Here also the offense at the former colleagues and the administration, the wounded self-esteem, uncertainty in own professional suitability, disappointment is possible, on any dismissal there are reasons.
1. Your foremost task: to understand the man and to accept a situation, so it turned out. Do not reproach him at all, do not press and do not abuse, you remember: his life changed a habitual rhythm, it needs to help to endure this stressful situation. Reproaches will only assure it of own insolvency and in general can become the cause of a deep and long depression.
2. Give the chance to your darling most to make decisions. If he stays idle, nenavyashchy push him to active behavior. Kind of accidentally tell that this month you could not pay for the apartment, the credit because of the shortage of money. Let he will feel responsibility for a situation. But do not go too far in it.
3. You do not press on it questions: When will you go to an interview? When for work? Encourage it better. Support if it fails in job search. Have patience. Advise the husband not only to distribute the summary on vacancies, but also to be registered in the employment service, to tell acquaintances about your situation, hoping for the help from outside.
4. You do not speak to him: "You need any work though the janitor if only paid". You show the mistrust in its professional qualities, abilities. So there is "time bomb", over time it will lead to decrease in a self-assessment, and even in general to despair.
5. Direct it to a thought to a positive. It is better to formulate concrete desire: to find work near the house, with good salary, good collective, further prospects. If he looks for something concrete, undoubtedly, good luck will smile to him soon, and in combination with your understanding and support, to the man will be to find work much easier and quicker and you will avoid the family conflicts, misunderstanding, reproaches and offenses. Remember that support, faith in the beloved - the main thing in this case!