Many people for achievement of the goals use charm, mind, charm, subtle humour. But not in all these qualities are put at the birth. Very often to become the person respected in society, it is necessary to work hard including over by itself.
Instruction
1. The best qualities need to be shown in business, but not to speak about them. Freedom from pressure of the professional and social sphere is reached by only very strong people, in you it will be noticed and estimated. It is always pleasant to have in staff of the employee which has big will power. Only do not go too far, you do not become arrogant in relation to people around.
2. If you get into a situation in which the conflict cannot be avoided, try not to shout to frighten the opponent – sometimes expressive silence more terrible than shout. Control the mimicry and gestures if on your person it is impossible to understand what you think of, then it can confuse opponents and frighten. You look directly, without blinking, having slightly blinked eyes, on interlocutors. You speak accurately, equal tone in what, in your opinion, the problem and as it is better to solve it consists. Each gesture has to be thought over and speak about your force and self-confidence. To show rage and immediately by effort of will to constrain it, happens too it is necessary. The person who can control the rage frightens more, than that which shouts and swings hands.
3. Be engaged in the appearance. You go to the gym. The man, first of all, should pay attention to trainings of muscles of hands and shoulders – these parts of a body should be shown most often. Buy a classical suit, even if you do not work at office. It will allow you to make the necessary impression on people around.
4. Be engaged in self-education. Learn a modern foreign language, you go hiking, be engaged social or charity, learn to prepare or visit lessons of dances. All this will help you to become the interesting interlocutor. Stick to that topic of conversation which is close to you and do not take part in what can show your weaknesses.