Happy family, the adjusted life, lack of financial problems, the world and harmony. Treachery of the husband is always a thunder and a lightning among the clear sky, nobody expects such act. Any woman cannot be sure that this trouble will not concern her. Treachery in family is identified with adultery more often. Emergence in a bed of the third party – competitors, mistresses, as if blow by a switch. At first pain, and then river of tears. Wise women learn to forgive to make attempt to keep family.
1. Let's tears spill. Cry so much how many you will be able. Make it for time, without stretching and without alluring to itself a depression. Let there will be steam, the veil of indignation, aggression, arrogance, poisonous-green rage will fall down. You need to calm down to begin to think, and after and to work.
2. You learned that the spouse changed you or changes. Be convinced of it so as far as it can be possible. Try to learn who this woman that she represents. As this novel as far as it is serious whether someone from mutual friends knows about the husband's hellbenders lasts long – find answers to these questions.
3. Now time to rummage in itself came. Think in what the treason reason is: crisis of family life, result long ago the withered feelings, the accumulated household or financial problems, lack of attention of you and so forth. Try to understand what became a push for your spouse that he got the relations on the party.
4. Talk to the husband. You do not shout, do not throw charges and vases at the same time. You already put forward the version (mentally), now listen to his opinion. You do not press on the spouse, quietly reach the truth what bitter it would not be.
5. Decide for yourself that is more expensive to you: to keep family and to improve the relations or to send darling where far away. If the second option is closer to you, then, without deliberating, ask the spouse to pack the things and to free the territory. You will be able to forgive him when it leaves, over time. The quicker on your way the new prince on a white game will meet, the it will be easier to forgive last treason. You will begin to perceive the past as a necessary stage for bright future. Still you will tell thanks to the one who once betrayed you.
6. If you consider that your family needs to give one more chance, then fight. Fight, having fisted aggression, having sent negative energy to a good cause, to actions. Remember all that attracted your spouse when you only began to meet. Direct all potential to creation "new yourself", it is better former in thousands of times. Be improved, become an ideal not only for the spouse, but also for potential boyfriends. Flirtation will lighten you the mood and will give feed to work in the same direction.
7. Do not remember treachery and do not remind the spouse. At your next suspicion and desire to tighten more tightly the spouse's collar, distract, relax and smile. You drive away similar thoughts.
8. Force the man to try to obtain your arrangement. The sexual relations should be restored on pieces, perhaps, they will be not really pleasant to you for some time. The best council: make love when you want it, but not to the spouse. The man has to try to tempt you, as well as in the very first time. The shadow of the third superfluous in a bed will remind of the incident until between you the elementary trust is not established.