Do you meet the guy several months, but did not venture to invite him home? Something opposes inside and prevents natural process of events. And the guy hints from time to time that not to see how you live. How to invite the guy to itself on a visit?
Instruction
1. Think what prevents you to invite the guy home? Various fears can sometimes be the cause. Many girls hesitate of a situation of the house, parents. Or it seems to you that inviting the guy home, you hint at sex? You should not worry because of a situation. Especially, if the apartment in which you live belongs to parents or removable. Do not you want the guy to fall in love with the house and a state? The young man, first of all, appreciates you as the personality. And if in the apartment something not as it should be, perhaps, the guy has an opportunity to show the male abilities and to repair something or to correct. Often happens that before the young man there is a wish to look more well-founded. Think how long you will be able to maintain "exaggerated" image? Sooner or later the guy all the same learns everything. You should not worry because of parents, they are not chosen. Your or his parents – such what are. Find, than it is possible to be proud for family. Be grateful to the father and mother, they gave birth to you on light. The invitation on a visit does not mean that it is necessary to have sex. All only according to your desire. Rules of good form and friendly relationship provide to invite each other to a cup of tea or coffee, a lunch, a conversation. In it there is nothing reprehensible.
2. Be prepared for arrival of the young man in advance. Tidy up the apartment or the room: dust, wash the floor. Do not you want to shock the guy? Buy something tasty to tea. A nourishing lunch – it is good, but is not obligatory at all. The young man came not to eat, and on a visit. It is good to prepare something independently, it is an occasion to show culinary abilities and to prove as the hostess of the house. Think over, than you will be engaged. It is known that pauses in words are replaced by a kiss. But if this evening sex is not in the plans, it is better to suggest the guy to play together favourite board game, to watch the movie, to chat. Show to the guy favourite things, interesting books, a photo album. And later go together to walk with a dog. If you are familiar long ago, do not hesitate to go with the young man to shop if it is required. Generally, lead usual life and involve the guy there.
3. Having invited the man home, you will become closer to him. If it is your person, then he will estimate this act, and then the relations will reach new level. It means proximity, trust, openness. If the guy does not pass this stage and something will frighten him, it means that it is not ready to close relations with you. You should not be upset if to the young man the apartment is more important, than you. Do you look not for the gigolo?