Conjugal ties - it is fine, but, unfortunately, till a time - till time. Joint life inevitably conducts to the fact that spouses, on the one hand, get used to each other, and with another - their relations gradually lose the sharpness. But whether the final once incredibly romantic, but at the same time the passionate relations is always so sad? How to achieve that your husband never lost to you interest?
It is required to you
- Female sharpness, resourcefulness and, of course, imagination.
Instruction
1. Perhaps at the very beginning of the relations also it seems that you will never be tired from each other, and will not be able to enjoy wholly a bowl of the pleasures got and brought - to all the end comes! Gradually desires come down on a minimum, common interests dissipate, and marriage can fail as a house of cards. That to avoid it, do not allow the husband to set in finally in the territory of your personal space. Unshakably hold these strategically important positions, the husband should not be your only meaning of life, from it in men the egocentrism quickly develops, and it is pernicious even for the most ardent feelings. Let you will have any hobbies or occupations not available to your spouse. It is good if sometimes he comes home and not to find you on the habitual place behind habitual occupations (washing, ironing, cooking). You can spend several evenings in a week on dances, fitness, yoga, courses on the fine arts or sewing. First, it will allow your man to feel that you have your private life, not related, and secondly, it with advantage the spent time. It is not necessary to be constantly within reach of your man! Thus, in you a certain intrigue will remain. It is quite natural that the spouse will be a little dissatisfied what will not be slow to report to you about, but he will have a lot of time for realizing the to you attachment and need to see you nearby!
2. In order that it is better to understand your man, it is correct to guess his thoughts and desires and also to react properly to them - study men's psychology. If you knows that is of interest to any man and yours in particular - you without problems will be able to urge on his interest in own person throughout a long time. You learn to make the correct gifts to your spouse which he really wishes, but not notorious shaving sets, shirts or still something like thatsomething like that. Besides, at you will begin to arise much less elementary nedoponimaniye. You learn in what form and under what circumstances it is necessary to express your requests, and so that it surely executed them.
3. Be engaged in self-improvement! By personal growth it can be meant anything, whether it be: meditation, work with mental sets, esoterics, reading or studying any scientific or art works, your creative growth and so on and so forth. It in general should be done not only to keep devotion of your man, but, first of all, to retain interest in itself! Life is surprisingly various and many-sided, and it, certainly, is worth it that it to live in the total sense of this word!