Even if you long ago together, doubts in what you will hear "Yes" in response to the offer to marry you remain. One business – to meet, and another is to build family. Responsibility at the same time lays down both on the man, and on the woman to the same extent. Making offer, you have to convince the potential bride of gravity of the intentions and find for this purpose such words, having heard which she will be able to answer only in the affirmative.
Instruction
1. A marriage – the serious and responsible step symbolizing your final growing and independence. Even if your parents are ready to help you, it is worth thinking over the future of the family without their material participation.
2. Think over as you will live at least for the next five years. Most likely, if there is no still certain apartment, you should remove it, but at the same time to save money for purchase of own housing or its acquisition in a mortgage. Consider that in the nearest future or through two-three of years you can have a child. Plan and paint milestones of formation of the family and tell about them to the bride, doing it the offer. Such approach will convince her that you are the adult, serious person quite ready to take the responsibility for family, to become the husband and the father.
3. At all pragmatism, women are very emotional and sentimental. Your offer has to be heard in the romantic, beautiful and memorable situation. It is good if it is unexpected, but here it is necessary to try, a notorious female intuition – not an invention. Women are capable to feel this moment in advance, but it is worth trying. Pick up the place where your recognition and the offer will sound more appropriate – cozy quiet small restaurant, a noisy party with friends, a trip to the nature.
4. Do not forget to buy a beautiful, original ringlet even if not really expensive which you will put on it a finger in honor of your engagement. It, of course, is traditional and not really original, but and an event in honor of which it is bought rather traditional.
5. If the girl is ready to begin family life with you, then it is not necessary to finish it. In certain cases she can doubt. For example, if its task for the near future is to live for itself or career development and the birth of children is not in the plans. If you are ready to consider its plans and desires, then, it seems to us, you will be able to hear "Yes" and in this case. This readiness to understand and reach compromise – great sign of a maturity of your relations therefore the wedding will become quite natural stage in their development.