Even if the guy already managed to win heart of the beauty once, then through some time from her lips it will be all the same possible to hear phrases: "Do not you love me", "It seems to me that you stopped loving me" or "What between us occurs?". Such phrases enrage many guys, and the girl in such a way only asks proofs of his love.
Often guys are sure that if they are in the relations with the girl, then it and is the direct proof of their love. However many girls do not agree with it. There is a variety of reasons on which the girl cannot just enjoy the relations, and she is gnawed by doubts and mistrust to the partner. Treat such reasons:
- Low self-assessment and diffidence. The girl can constantly think and worry that her partner will throw sooner or later her as it is insufficiently good, not economic, has excess weight, etc. The reason of such self-assessment and diffidence is in the girl's childhood, and here the guy if he really loves it should work with this problem.
- Negative experience of the previous relations. The previous young man betrayed it, threw, changed, substituted, extended it all nerves, and now it with care will concern all men. It is some kind of psychological protection.
- Pathological jealousy. The reason of jealousy there can be a set, beginning from complex of the girl, finishing with fear of loneliness and relaxed behavior of the guy in relation to other women. The jealousy in itself is a normal feeling of the loving person, but when the girl constantly demands proofs of love, in parallel tracing all calls and messages, demanding constant presence, it is already pathology.
- Shortage of attention. The guy can quite have objective reasons not to find for the girl so much time how many she wants. For example, load at work or family circumstances (the help to relatives, etc. is necessary). In such situation the main thing to try to inform of it to the partner softly.
- To talk more. During communication it is possible to learn more about the partner (that in the future will be undoubted plus), to keep in the emotional connection, to clear any arisen intense moments. To girls communication is important, it is important to them to understand that the partner is always ready to listen to it, to show interest in her life and to listen to its feelings.
- To give a thicket compliments. Gentle words from lips of darling always give confidence and improve mood. It is especially important to hear compliments to diffident girls, for them it as if medicine.
- To make acts. Beautiful words about eternal love and devotion - it, of course, is good, but any girl will tell that words need to be confirmed with business. For example, if the girl got sick, then the guy himself can volunteer to go to drugstore behind drugs and to prepare for it an easy, but tasty dinner. If the girl was tired, then the guy can help with cleaning or wash the dishes. Thus, the young man shows that he is ready to undertake care of darling.
- To remember the general important dates. Day when began to meet, date of the first appointment or a kiss - an excellent opportunity to congratulate and show the love not only in words.
- To give romantic parties without occasions. The romanticism is not always a bouquet of flowers and a visit of luxury restaurant. It is possible to organize a romantic picnic, walk on the night city or to drive together on attractions, remembering the childhood. And the campaign is romanticism too. The main thing to know that the girl loves, and for this purpose it is necessary to implement Paragraph 1.
- To show that she takes the important place in life. For example, some for the sake of the darling leave off smoking and begin to lead a healthy lifestyle. Others divide with girls of their hobby.
It is still important to remember that the relations are the general work. If in the relations only one guy works, constantly proving the love, and the girl is dissatisfied with something all the time, then such union is doomed to a failure.