Parting often is followed by charges and surges in hatred to the partner. At this moment can seem that with this person you cannot have nothing in common. But ostyv, you understand that you want to live with darling all life. Not late to return everything, the main thing to belong to it seriously and not to be given.
Instruction
1. Calm down and give to cool down to the man. Parting, is not dependent on whether it was followed by scandals or took place by agreement, leaves an unpleasant deposit in soul. If you strongly suffer from separation, make to yourself a promise that you will cease to feel sorry for yourself tomorrow and you will be engaged in restoration of the relations. Convince yourself that the love is more important than pity for you to itself.
2. Do not torment loved by constant calls and SMS, especially, if it left to other woman. You will only in vain humiliate yourself and anger the man. After heavy parting neither you, nor he are ready to constructive dialogue. Now it is better for you to take care of the own life. Think why it left you. The love passes when the loved one becomes at all not that whom was at first. Therefore begin to look after the appearance. Objectively estimate the shortcomings and advantages. Change the image and completely update clothes. It is necessary not only to return darling, first of all it is necessary for you. Parting anyway lowers a self-assessment, you have to fall in love anew with yourself and open from the new party. When next time the man sees you, you have to surprise him really.
3. Do not count on reconciliation if own transformation ends on a new hairstyle. Remember all claims which were at muzhchinyk to you. Probably you went not one day to parting therefore recollect all the misses. You never have to afford such behavior which is not approved by your man.
4. Change a rhythm of the life and make it more saturated. Meet the girlfriends and find to yourself new hobbies. The renewed interest in life will help you to distract and does not belong to the parting fact as tragically as earlier. Such complex transformation will make you in the opinion of the beloved by desired, but inaccessible size that will undoubtedly stir his interest in you.
5. If darling left you for the sake of other woman, try to spoil their relations at least a few. You ask from the man the help, especially if you have children. Constant visits of darling to you will hardly please his new passion. Eventually it will begin to saw him. Try to spread unpleasant rumors about this woman in a circle of your friends. However be accurate, darling should not understand that he is obliged by this ""joy"" to you.
6. Arrange your meeting with darling. Only do not agree with the man about it. Your emergence has to become for it a bolt from the blue. Do not behave so as if your world failed after parting, but also do not try to show contempt or indifference. Communicate on a friendly note and tell it about yourself as little as possible. To increase chances of a meeting with darling, make friends with his friends. Try to fascinate them. The opinion of close companions means therefore do not neglect them arrangement to men much, but do not overstep the bound of friendship and do not flirt with anybody at all.
7. Organize several "casual" appointments and if you notice the interest of darling in yourself, gradually go for rapprochement. You ask about the help, present a gift for a holiday, you start direct talks. If you notice obvious desire at the man to return, but he will hesitate on it – take the first step.
8. Do not lower the level after your reconciliation. Remain such to what it to you returned and be constantly improved. Do not repeat the same mistake again. Try to diversify your life, to get rid of a routine. It will not allow to calm down your love which needs to be supported constantly. And never reproach the man reminders on your separation. It is better to talk about it once, right after reconciliation and to find out the true reasons of such act. Remember that having returned the man back, you already forgave him.