The generation gap existed always, and still it is one of the most difficult aspects in family relationship. As soon as the child enters awkward teenage age, it begins more or less serious conflicts with parents of which can be guilty as the parents who are not understanding needs of the child for such age and the child who does not know how to approach parents and to cause their understanding. It is very important to make the house the place in which mutual understanding and harmony reigns. For this relation of children and parents it is necessary to normalize to avoid the conflicts and to resolve issues together.
Instruction
1. It is the best of all to treat parents as friends who are always ready to support, but, nevertheless, have decisive authority on family. Respecting parents, you will summon respect, and in turn, parents who want from the child of respect have to respect in it the full-fledged and original personality.
2. Quarrels and contentions happen to parents at each teenager, and it is necessary to be able to cope with this misunderstanding. Realize that your parents are people who gave you life and offered many for the sake of you, and even if it seems to you that at the moment they are indifferent to you - it is not so. Parents always love you whatever you were.
3. Making a complaint to parents, you remember that you are not ideal – just as they. Therefore you should not ignore requests of parents. You treat them most respectfully and validly.
4. Despite everything, your parents in the house have basic right of a voice – their opinion is decisive until the child reaches majority. Respect authority of parents – and they will respect your rights. Despite disagreements, you remember the love and appreciation for parents.
5. In certain cases to show respect for parents it is difficult – for example when they do not fulfill the parental duty, lead the wrong life, badly influence the child and are not engaged in his education. Nevertheless, these parents whatever they were grew up you – so, too deserve respect.
6. Do not push away them, and try to understand what was not enough for them in life and why they concern you worse, than you would like. Even the worst parents give to the child care and protection – remember it.
7. Resolving disputes and the conflicts with parents, do not make rows and do not raise the voice. Quiet and constructive discussion will bring more results, than exchange of claims and curses.
8. Learn to forgive parents, you remember that besides the weaknesses they have the mass of high qualities.
9. Learn reconciliation – grant to parents the right to be mistaken, meet requirements of them, show love and care.
10. Remember that parents are anxious for you and your future and therefore they try to impose on you some restrictions, doing it as are able. Respect experience of parents and combine it with own life experience and also respect their feelings and desires.
11. Do not think only of yourself – pay attention to requirements and dreams of the parents, and in process of opportunities help them and be sensitive.
12. Try to communicate more with parents, to share with them news from the life – even if in something they do not understand you, your sociability will become a good step on the way to restoration of the favorable relations.