Many young people whom darling left ask a question – how to return the girlfriend by all means. This desire can make sense only if you are sure that the relations did not come to the final point, and something else can be saved as of you, and from the girl. How to force the former girlfriend to return and restore feelings? There are several steps which will help you to renew the relations.
1. Think seriously of whether you love the girl actually, or just you do not want in life something to change. If you just got used to it and do not want to work for the new relations – there is no sense to revive old. If feelings really still are, and you suspect that they are also from the girlfriend, there is an occasion to try to return her.
2. Communicating from former girlfriend, never arrange scenes and do not show the weakness. If she sees in you the weak and desperate person, she will hardly want to return. Learn to control the emotions and if you need to complain to someone – call on a visit the close friend.
3. Be not imposed to the girl – you do not ask it to return, do not blackmail, do not claim that without it your life falls. These things only push away.
4. Stop to feel sorry for yourself and you do not press on feeling of pity of the girl. Try to develop in yourself the best qualities – improve those lines which especially were pleasant to your girlfriend.
5. Let the girl know that even if she left, you are always ready to communicate to her as with the friend. Be open and friendly, unostentatiously show the best qualities, change to the best – she will notice it.
6. To understand what needs to be changed in itself, reflect over what led to desire of the girl to leave you. Remember its claim, think what could not be pleasant to it.
7. Try to get rid of negative traits of character and of problems which led to parting. It is possible if the girlfriend notices that there is no problem any more, it with pleasure will return.