Cohabitation to the beloved - an important and responsible step which parents can not approve. It is better to report to them about the planned changes in advance, without tightening and without concealing anything. In that case the probability that they will understand you and will support is very high.
Instruction
1. Before reporting to parents news about change of the residence, take care of that they knew your elect well. Let them know that you have strong feelings: invite darling on a visit, you go for a walk with him and parents. They have to trust this person.
2. Let parents know that you already the adult who is responsible for the acts also are able to cope with difficulties: do not lower all money on the first pay day, learn to solve minor household problems independently.
3. You do not beat around the bush, at once start the main idea - report to them about the intentions, give successful examples from experience of the acquaintances. Tell that you are going to live together when you plan to begin. Try not to burden them with the problems connected with moving: prepare material resources, find housing.
4. Before speaking to parents, solve for yourself - whether precisely you want joint life with your elect, the decision to live together is possible it is dictated by emotions. You have to be sure of darling, of the and his intentions.
5. Do not postpone a conversation with parents, all of them equally learn, the earlier, the better if you tighten, risk to wind themselves, perhaps your parents against have nothing, and you will be in constant tension. At heart all parents dream to marry the daughter, and a civil marriage - a step in the right direction.
6. Convince the young man to talk to your parents when they see his reverent attitude to you - them it will be much simpler to release you.
7. Promise parents that you will regularly visit them, for them your leaving the house - a huge stress which overcoming requires time.
8. Tell parents about the plans for the future, they have to be aware. If you in the long term plan a marriage, report about it at once, parents will easier transfer information that you will move down.