Some relations, even with good guys, come to an end with parting for some reasons which are not depending on them. Most often there is no wish to hurt the person who long time was with you and lived alone life.
Instruction
1. For a start you should understand yourself so down with all girlfriends, friends, advisers. Remain alone with the thoughts and already finally for yourself decide whether it is worth throwing such good guy or not. Answer simple questions: whether this decision is conscious and sincere or it is the minute rush which arose under the influence of desire to revenge; when you understood that you do not accept relationship; whether you because one of you changed leave. If after answers to questions you have though the slightest hint on preservation of the relations, then it is worth trying.
2. If you unambiguously decided to leave, then you should be prepared for a serious and heavy conversation well. Isolate for yourself arguments with which you will operate when parting. Only do not begin a conversation with accusatory words, as if only it is guilty of everything. The relations are usually built by two persons and if they collapse, then both are guilty. If you accuse him of a gap, at the guy the inferiority complex can develop and besides you give it false hope - if it changes, your relations are normalized again.
3. And now the most difficult - a conversation. Make an appointment in the neutral territory. Choose such place with which at you it will not be connected any memoirs. Explain why you decided to stop communication, at the same time thank it in pleasant and wonderful minutes which you spent together. Do not reproach it with anything - you decided to finish the relations and a point. Make it beautifully and without scandals.
4. Do not give hope for renewal of relations. Perhaps, he will call you, to pursue, write heart-breaking SMS messages. You are firm as an iceberg in the ocean, - any farewell meetings, kisses and precisely any farewell sex. From it it will become easier for nobody not but only will aggravate situation. It is better to chop off the ends at once, than to tear off small pieces from heart.
5. If you respect this person and appreciate, then do not disappear from his life. everyone has the right for the last conversation. If you think, what will be so simpler and easier, then strongly you are mistaken. The guy will be engaged in heart-searching, and will look for the reasons of a gap only in himself. It very strongly can strike a self-assessment of the young man.
6. A disgusting way of parting - treason with other guy and to make it so that he learned or his friends. Yes, it is possible, he will leave you, but for a start think of whether you want to gain reputation of the thoughtless light-headed maiden not capable of serious and deep feelings?