Education of children – very difficult process which demands a responsible attitude of both parents. And many, especially inexperienced parents, often ask themselves a question as it is necessary to treat correctly children, their education. Here it is important to approach this business intelligently and love.
Instruction
1. The very first and most important council is to love the children and to remember that education not the mathematics, is not present tough rules here. Listen to the heart and follow first of all its advice, but not councils of clever books. But the thing is that it is always necessary to love, even when they cry, are capricious, do not obey, offend you. It is important to react to children at these moments not irritation, but love, to try to understand what stands behind their bad behavior. When you shout at children, they absorb your negative and begin to behave even worse.
2. It is necessary to treat children as to equal to, but not as to the silly, understanding nothing beings. Children, whatever age they were, is not sillier than us, just you can not always understand each other. It is not necessary to lisp with them. Think, kind of you communicated with the foreigner beginning to learn your language? Would not you understand it, but were respectful, isn't it? Why not to try to treat as well the child?
3. To children, especially small, it is necessary that you spent with them a maximum of the time. But you remember that your children are not you, they are others. Therefore they are not obliged to love what is loved by you, to think the same as you and to arrive as it seems correct to you. If the child does not like dancing classes which you took in the childhood, and there is a wish to play more, for example, with a soft toy, agree with his opinion, do not force. Imposed all the same will not bring benefit.