If you managed to get acquainted and strike up a conversation with the girl, then you should win her arrangement at once. The first moments of acquaintance the most important, further succession of events depends on them. If you do not make a good impression and do not win over the girl, your first meeting can quite become also the last. Try to be pleasant to it at once, but for this purpose it is necessary to try a little.
1. First of all – appearance. If on you untidy clothes, dirty footwear, you have dirty hair and a black border under nails, then chances at you will be much less. If you after all are in such look, then it is necessary to apologize for it at once and to explain the reason of the emergence in it – return from giving, a multi-day campaign. Think up something romantic and connected with a courageous act. But not too dream that it was possible to make then of it light.
2. Never try to make impressions on the girl, giving themselves not for the one who you are is actually. Women are shrewd psychologists and are very observant. Telling it that you the successful top manager in the known company and using at the same time the cheap mobile phone, you will be exposed instantly, and loss of trust can become for you fatal.
3. Tell the girl about yourself, about the hobbies, about the one as whom you work, than are engaged at work and in free time. But, to interest her, you also actually have to be the interesting person. If you tell her that after work you run home to the parental apartment to play all evening online games, then hardly it will like arrangement to you if only not the fan of such pastime.
4. Do not forget to notice in a conversation that you not from those who stick and meet all pleasant girls, note its distinctive features which you could not resist and which made an indelible impression on you. Praise its appearance and ability to put on, but do not overdo – note those lines which really take place. Use the sense of humour if you manage to raise at it a smile, then it is a sure sign of the fact that you are already pleasant to it.
5. In a conversation find out those subjects which are most interesting to it and try to adhere to them, giving the chance to it to express. Listening, you at the same time, and learn about it and about some lines of its character more, will understand its interests. Using this knowledge, you at the next meeting will be able to consolidate the received achievements.