Each woman – the inherent manipulator. And very few people from men are capable to challenge this fact. Since childhood, and to mature age of the woman study all imaginable and inconceivable ways to try to obtain the. But one business when the habitual and a little irritating female whims, and another matter when in communication with men we apply technology of manipulation which are absolutely imperceptible are used. How to learn to apply the NLP in life and in communication with the stronger sex? We will also talk about it.
NLP for every day
Having a little gone deep into science, we will remember that neurolinguistic programming, this, first of all, verbal impact on our opponent. And in hands of women competent use of skills of the NLP is capable to turn into the real weapon. If pikaper use technology of programming to achieve girls then why actually we cannot arrive also? Nobody is able to affect opinion of people around and to convince them as it is done by women. So let's consider several receptions where neurolinguistic programming smoothly affects men.
The phrases coding the stronger sex:
- Darling I here seriously thought …. Researches of psychologists confirmed that almost in 50% of cases such phrase forces the man to strain and pay the attention to the interlocutor. During fractions of a second in the head of men dozens of the assumptions are born what the interlocutor decided to tell about. To use a similar phrase very conveniently in case it is urgently necessary for you that the man paid attention to you.
- Darling today I do not want sex. Such phrase is capable to subject the man in the condition of a stupor similar to the approaching world accident. In what situation it is possible to apply a similar phrase? There are several options: to turn away from it and to fall asleep that suffered and thought what he it made, and from now on to you was more attentive, or after all to agree to intimate proximity after long and painful expectation of the man. Let him be proud of himself and the persistence. The male vanity will not prevent to butter up sometimes too.
- I want more!. Option, the return to previous. After just ended sexual intercourse when the man flat-out leaned back on a back, such phrase has effect razovravsheysya bombs. You immediately will hear hundreds of excuses as he was tired and wants to sleep. He can answer it something it seems Well with the road, I understand everything and I will not insist then you will bathe by all means in his love and gratitude.
Time and the place in the NLP
Also in the NLP for girls there is couple of receptions when emphasis is placed not so much on phrases, how many for a while when they were said. For example, you were tired to wait for enterprise from the man and decided to act. Several examples of you for record:
- The man already long time without budging from a place is online. Silently you approach it, you take away a mouse and kind of accidentally you pass to some pornwebsite. At the same time it is possible to stick into any photo or video and to ask: And why we still did not try this pose?. You are waited by amazing effect at which it is possible to ask anything.
- Friends of the husband sat up at you late, and are not going to leave obviously. Enter on kitchen in the most beautiful and revealing dress, with a beautiful hairstyle and a make-up. Pick up a glass of beer or other drink which is taken in the company of your man, drink off it and leave with the words It Is Possible for Darling You for a Minute?. Further succession of events depends already on you.
- One of examples which is used in the pickup. If your partner not always understands you, and it seems to you that you cannot find with him a common language, use effect of imitation. It does not mean that it is worth copying it literally. But it is possible to copy imperceptibly its movements, a manner to tell and tempo of speech, adopt some of its habits and hobbies. Through some time you will notice that steel for it more loved one. He will begin to give more to you attention, to praise for some of your gestures and to admire your habits, even without suspecting that all of them belong to him.
Skills of the NLP in love
Affecting neurolinguistic programming in love, it is important to remember that though this science is called manipulative, first of all it is aimed at the development in the person of his best qualities. The NLP is an improvement of consciousness, a way to make itself it is better. As for the relations with an opposite sex, for their harmonious development it is enough to find only four skills of the NLP:
- choose the man who will correspond to your internal criteria and values (at the same time your inquiries have to be real and adequate);
- learn to put yourself to the place of your blessed. Thus, you learn to understand and define better it what he waits from you for;
- be going to share with it by own efforts, to give it the heat and all the forces, without expecting anything in exchange;
- consider its interests and you give it the attention. Be ready to postpone at any time the affairs for the sake of it.
Observance of these simple rules will not remain your unnoticed man. The relations it is always the victim. Invest in the love and over time you will achieve the desirable.
The NLP for women was created even long before emergence of neurolinguistic programming as psychological science. Also his women created. All remember a phrase that men rule the world, and women govern men. Simple and simple skills of interaction with the stronger sex will give you the chance to achieve the, without sacrificing the interests. The main thing in this case, precisely you want nobility and represent what from the life and from that man that is near you. The rest – a trick.