Communication is a component of human life, our private life and career in many respects depends on communication also. Unfortunately, today there are a lot of absolutely uncommunicative people, and because of inability to communicate often there is a misunderstanding between interlocutors who can prevent in work, in private life, etc. As a rule, effective communication is impossible because of the psychological barrier leading to decrease in communicative abilities, causing tension in the person, etc.
Psychological barriers of communication
Certainly, the psychological barrier is a consequence of specific features of the person, for example, uncertainty, isolation, modesty, etc. In this regard psychologists allocate several main types of psychological barriers of communication:
- Intellectual. Such barrier arises between the people having absolutely different type of thinking, intellectual development, etc.
- Emotional. Productive communication it can not turn out if at one of interlocutors bad mood or health, and he does not wish to get into an argument at all.
- Motivational. Communication is impossible because people have different purposes, and it is resulted by full misunderstanding.
- Esthetic. This barrier arises because another is unpleasant to one of interlocutors, for example it is not pleasant how it is dressed, etc.
How to break a psychological barrier?
So, to break psychological barriers, to cope with difficulties in communication, it is possible to try the following ways:
- To change a communication manner. Your dialogue with the interlocutor to return to normal if you correspond to a situation and people.
- You watch appearance. How to be told meet on clothes, it is far more pleasant to conduct a conversation with the person whose appearance causes sympathy.
- Respect the interlocutor. Never interrupt the person, let's express, then he will feel comfortably in your society and the psychological barrier will be erased.
- You monitor the speech. Words have to be logically connected, speak about what you understand if you do not possess information, give the floor better to the interlocutor who well understands a topic of conversation.