"Parting is small death", - Alla Pugacheva sang once. And it is valid, such situation is always taken by people hard, to live on love ruins very sadly. But, anyway, it is necessary to go forward, parting – not the end of a course of life, perhaps, it even the beginning of your new light life.
When you leave the beloved, can seem that the world collapsed and narrowed to the size of the apartment or even the bedroom. At this moment it is very important to communicate with people. Remember the friends and girlfriends, relatives and friends – do not become reserved. Communicate, try to dissolve the experience in a talk. You should not discuss the problem, try to find subjects which are far from it. You should not make a typical mistake at all - to go to seed. Do not forget that you have to look good. Play sports, do not miss campaigns to the cosmetologist, the hairdresser. Perhaps, you should trying even to change image – to replace a hairstyle, hair color. Parting - very suitable time to take care of the own life. And not only appearance. Perhaps, you dream to begin to learn a modern language for a long time? Now it is a high time to plunge into study. Perhaps, you want to learn to sew or skate? More safely forward. At this time the forced loneliness you will be able to focus on occupations.
Often good means to endure parting is the travel. Of course, you will not escape from yourself, but change of places, new impressions, new acquaintances and an opportunity to dig out something novel can become a powerful tool from love melancholy. And there, who knows, suddenly traveling, you will meet new love, or will find new occupation? Risk. As a last resort – you will just vanish and will come back home well rested and another, not disappointed in love, and the traveler. If you do not manage to pull out and find meaning of life, then, perhaps in any way, it is necessary to try to address the psychotherapist. He will precisely listen carefully to your stories about the died love and loneliness (in difference even from the closest friends who enough will be tired of your history soon). Campaigns to the psychologist or the psychotherapist will help you to cope with loss and to endure the hard period.