It is considered to be that early pregnancy (in 12-17 years) arises in asocial families where the low level of finance and education. However it is a widespread mistake. Another thing is that for teenagers in the period of youthful maximalism and the overestimated ambitions the unexpected pregnancy appears as a certain global disaster. Not to break already fragile teenage organism, adults and the child need to act together.
It is required to you
- - three tests for pregnancy
- - vitamin and mineral complexes
- - book about healthy food
- - comfortable footwear and clothes
Instruction
1. First of all, do not panic, do not abuse the child and do not look for guilty persons. The conflict will only aggravate situation. It is necessary to wait when all parties calm down, and then to sit down and talk. Also is recommended to find out quietly who the father of the child what he age and whether can share the responsibility burden. Tough decision is necessary: to give birth or not? Abortion and childbirth are equally dangerous to a weak organism. The first abortion can cross out a possibility of further motherhood, and childbirth threatens with internal gaps and blood loss. After pregnancy confirmation (not less than 3 tests showed positive result) it is necessary to consult immediately with the gynecologist.
2. In case of the decision to keep the child, late and having a snack fast food the girl should forget about walks. To take out the healthy child and to avoid many complications of early pregnancy (abortions, placentary insufficiency, etc.), it is necessary to adhere to the recommendations of the doctor, healthy nutrition, the mode of a dream and wakefulness. Parents have to lead a discussion of rather forthcoming changes in the teenager's life independently, or use the help of the psychologist. Physical changes during pregnancy (set of weight, hypostases of legs, etc.) can frighten the girl. Continued moral support from close people will save from a stress and will provide increase in level of psychological readiness. You tell phrases more often: "You well done!", "We will cope!", "We so love you!", etc.
3. The child and mother actively grow in a stomach therefore it is necessary to fill up the teenager's diet with vitamins and minerals, in particular folic acid, calcium and potassium. Early pregnancy is fraught with severe toxicosis and faints. Take care of walks in silence in the fresh air, increase hemoglobin level iron medicines. Will help to weaken unpleasant feelings at toxicosis sour juice, herbal teas (with mint, leaves of currant or strawberry) and easy vegetable soups on the basis of broccoli and haricot. It is necessary to eat food in the small portions every 2.5 - 3 hour. Mixing of various ingredients will only strengthen nausea therefore it is recommended to eat separately: not to combine meat and grain, not to eat at one time food more than three components.
4. As teenage girls are anxious with the appearance, for increase in level of comfort buy comfortable, stylish clothes and footwear for pregnant women. If it was not succeeded to choose the size in special salons for future mothers, buy usual clothes 2 sizes bigger. Footwear on heels is possible if the heel steady and its height does not exceed 4 cm. Also the room of the teenager has to undergo serious changes. It should be issued taking into account accommodation of future kid.
5. In order to avoid rumors and persecution from schoolmates, educational activity of the teenager should be transferred to house conditions. Talk to the director and teachers about tutoring. At the consent of teachers, it is possible to use an online training method. However long sitting at the computer is strictly contraindicated to pregnant women. Let reads textbooks on a bench in the park better. It is also possible to ask school administration about a delay of educational process for a year.
6. The strong fear is caused by not pregnancy, but childbirth. Choose together suitable maternity hospital, discuss rodorazresheniye options, agree with personnel about a possibility of your presence on childbirth. Be ready to give support and in care for the newborn. The maternal instinct at teenagers is poorly expressed therefore you should undertake many cares.