The relations between the man and the woman are difficult and many-sided. Some couples manage to find the happiness. Others – should leave. If the woman is capable to analyze and even if a little to change, she completely is implemented and finds happiness with darling.
Commercialism
As it is pleasant to be well off. To get expensive things, to go for a weekend to Europe.
He decently earns? – Perfectly! But it is not criterion for the choice of the elect. It is a material bonus to the sincere relations.
Do not ask the guy about the status of his family, a position at work on the first appointment. Commercialism – one of the main qualities of the woman which are pushing away the man. Time will come, he will want to spend for you terribly earned. If, of course, believes in your love.
The female self-interest is shown not only in finance. To resolve an issue, to settle a problem, to repair, bring. It is pleasant to nobody when it is used. Instead of feelings – barefaced calculation. Such girls, as a rule, lose with a chipped washing-tub.
Jealousy
Jealousy – the destroying feeling. It poisons the relations. Odergivaniya, charges, scenes, hysterics enrage him. Especially as suspicions of the majority are groundless. The reason is in diffidence that, by the way, too irritates the man.
Do not put pressure, relax, allow it to be the man. You remember: the more the bans, the there are more temptations. Take care of the own life, find work to liking. Otherwise he will freak out and will leave to another.
Sex blackmail
Partners have a different relation to sex. The man just can or cannot. The woman can always. And it is difficult for it to understand that she is strongly dependent on the emotional state. For it proximity – a concept absolute and unconditional. Therefore when he wants the darling, refusal for the reason "you did not wash the dishes" enrages him.
Do not confuse intimate proximity with household problems. Tell it about the discontent, but only later. Present that he told you: "I will not incur these suitcases because you did not iron to me shirt!". Your feelings? Indignation, powerlessness. Then you invite the porter.
Control and care
Why so late? What are you thinking of? Total control will not be tolerated by any man. To be successful, it is necessary to be free. Not from obligations, is not present: for fear not to please the darling. Need all the time to justify oneself, speak or will turn it into "rag", or will force to run up hill and down dale. Who will want to come to the house where you are waited by cross-questioning?
Excessive care also irritates the man. He does not want to be a sonny for the beloved. At least at the beginning of the relations. But if it has no choice, it will accept such model. However, most likely, will bring to itself the mistress with whom realizes the machismo.
Low self-assessment
Think, how often, meeting the interesting man, you catch yourself on a thought that are unworthy him. The man never doubts the irresistibility. If he became interested in the girl, to him absolutely not very well what legs or hair at it. Until you do not tell about it: "Ninka has such head of hear, I have three hairs!"
Feelings arise not to a face form and not to body weight. If the guy estimates the size of your breast, means at it other plans for you.
The woman with the underestimated self-assessment does not motivate the partner. It or initially finds the worthless person, or constrains development of strong, provoking it to aggression. Anyway such relations have no future.