Often we shout at the children. And it is not always justified. It is sometimes connected with the fact that we have problems at work or at home, and here still childish pranks. But shout is only dropped by the authority of parents and over time just ceases to act. How to agree with the child without shout and nerves? There are 6 magic words which will help you to become closer to the baby, will help to understand each other better.
Instruction
1. ""Yes, if"" instead of ""No"". Simple "No" without explanations is an extra reason for the next children's hysterics. Replace it on "Can be" or "Yes, if". Try to agree with the child that if he removes the toys, then you will go for a walk as he wants. In this case it is important to keep the promises, otherwise this method will quickly lose any meaning.
2. "Forgive" All of us are mistaken. But we apologize only to adults, and children need also to feel the importance for you. Especially, where to it still to study politeness how not at you? As to it to understand that nobody is perfect and that to recognize the mistakes, it is normal.
3. "Stop" Agree with the child that this word stops all actions and under any circumstances. Only do not abuse the power, otherwise force of a word is lost. Use the Feet team, only if childish pranks really go beyond all limits.
4. "We study" This magic phrase will help you and in case the child makes a mistake in something and if strangers want to make any remark in the address, your with the child. They too once studied and made gaffes.
5. "You will be able" Tell this phrase every time when the child doubts himself. You teach him to the fact that failure is only the sign. The sign of the fact that everything will turn out if to make more efforts. Develop in it self-confidence and persistence on achievement of desirable result.
6. "Always" the Child has to know always that he is loved by you. Especially at those moments when you are angry and nervous. Give several minutes a day for embraces and declarations of love to own child. You say to the kid that you will love him, despite everything, that your love - forever.