Many adults do not perceive children's offenses seriously, it seems to them that the child owing to the age can take offense only at some trifles, for example, on the fact that mom did not buy a new toy or forbade superfluous to play half an hour a computer game. Such offenses happen, and they, really, not too serious. However, together with them there are also more serious experiences which arise because of parents.
Instruction
1. Mothers and fathers not always behave correctly in the relations with the children, sometimes they, without noticing that, do such acts which at the child to make inadmissibly or tell to the kid absolutely inappropriate phrases.
2. Words and acts it is the simplest to offend, and parents quite sincerely can even not notice it. For example, an ordinary slap for some small offense which parents perceive as the educational moment, can strongly offend the child. Physical punishments, in principle, cannot be applied in the course of education as they humiliate the identity of the child, and it will surely be reflected in his further life. The child cries not because to him it is painful from the next slap and because to the kid so upset one could cry that parents so treat it. Punishments have to be others, more humane and less dangerous to the identity of the child.
3. Shouts too very much offend children, and very many parents regularly raises on the children the voice, and in an occasion and without. When the parent shouts, the child does not understand all essence of this shout, he is not capable to understand why mom or dad raised the voice. He just starts anew wildly to be afraid of the parents, and then the offense which works lodges in his heart it is destructive. It is enough to look in the child's eyes during own shout to understand how awfully it affects children.
4. Ignoring from parents - it, too, is incredibly offensive for the child. To children it is important that paid them attention, they need in is mute therefore take great pain it to attract to itself. If parents constantly ignore the child, then an entrance not the best methods of drawing attention will go. The child will notice that in most cases parents pay attention to him when he was guilty. Yes, in this case shout at the child, but all the same the attention of mom with dad entirely belongs to it to one. Respectively, the kid will specially behave disgustingly that he was noticed.