Independence – quality which needs to be cultivated at the child, since early age. Accustoming him to independent clothing, parents form at it skill most to overcome the arising difficulties.
It is required to you
- Patience, doll, clothes for the child, clothes for a doll
Instruction
1. Begin to accustom the child to independent clothing approximately from 1.5 years. From this age at the kid evident and effective thinking is formed. He learns to interact with objects, to understand their appointment. That process of mastering skill of clothing did not happen spontaneously, show to the child, how exactly it is necessary to put on any given thing.
2. At first show how the simplest things are put on, for example valenoks, mittens, etc. That is such articles of clothing in which there are no difficult fasteners, locks and ties. At the successful solution of this task the kid will have interest in process. Surely you praise the child for his achievements in this business, hard for it. In kindergarten or on a visit hold up the child as an example to children who are not able to put on yet. It will raise a self-assessment of the kid that will positively affect his aspiration to independence.
3. Attract interest of the child in clothing by means of a doll. It is externally most similar to the person. Apply a game method, ask the child to dress a doll on walk. At the same time tell that it already adult, and a doll – small. She is not able to put on things. It is desirable that the doll had a full range of clothes: undershirt, pants, dress, jacket, footwear, cap, coat, scarf. During the game the child will understand how it is necessary to put on things. Besides, he will acquire the sequence of putting on of things. That is at first it is necessary to put on linen, then a dress, a jacket a doll and so on. Let the doll will become for the child the companion on training.
4. Have patience. To inadmissibly hurry the child when he tries to put on independently. Support him, encourage. Let him see that you are proud of it. It will become a good incentive to its further actions. Showing discontent that you should expect long a baby until he puts on, you will show the nervousness. This state will be transferred to the child at once, and he will also begin to be nervous. As a result – unnecessary whims and nerves.
5. Support the kid in his aspiration most to put on clothes. Let him try, studies, fixing the shown actions. You should not do for him what, in your opinion, it still early to study to. Limiting the child in his aspirations to independence, you gradually cultivate in him laziness. Over time he will not begin even to make attempts in order that to make something most. In the future it is very difficult to such children to adapt to adult, independent life. They will not be able to make decisions, and will begin to wait until the problem for them is solved by parents.