Often parents of girls face an education problem. To bring up so that the daughter and in the life easily could cope with difficulties, and at the same time remained womanly and gentle. According to psychologists, there are seven rules of education of girls.
Instruction
1. Beauty. What appearance your daughter would not have, you have to inspire since childhood in it that she is a beauty. Uncertainty in the appeal a heavy burden, both for the girl, and for the adult woman. Never point out to it its small defects, teach the little lady to look after yourself better, to work on the appeal. Masks, cleanings, physical exercises - the earlier you accustom to it the girl, the it will be easier for it to keep the beauty at mature age. Let learns to love himself and to work on the shortcomings.
2. Darling. The women who are brought up by very exacting parents are deeply convinced that good attitude it is necessary to deserve. It both a complex of the victim, and uncertainty that it can be favourite, and excessive diligence at adult age. The deprived in the love childhood, absolutely young girl can strongly burn. To take not absolutely good intentions of the first comer who told it couple of kind words for love. Only that which is loved will learn to feel dislike really.
3. Reasonable. The woman - the keeper of all in this life, including life. Therefore since childhood it is necessary to teach the child to distinguish good from bad. It is not necessary to intimidate, it is necessary to warn against excessive naivety and trustfulness. She needs to be able to distinguish and avoid what can threaten her life, safety and reputation.
4. Guardian angel. You teach the girl to see others pain, to be able to care for relatives. Let will begin with you, her mom. Straighten out if she tries to deride others shortcomings. And what is still very important, try to teach balance of prudence and mercy. Let will learn to distinguish the unworthy people using her kindness, from, really, needing its help.
5. Little hostess. Teach the girl to all skills of housekeeping. Prepare her psychologically for the fact that she is a keeper of a home, and should not complain of the female share. Show it rational ways of maintaining life that by her it was habitual to be operated with affairs. At the same time, she should not hesitate to ask the help where it is really necessary.
6. Active and optimistic. Let's the daughter try out as the leader, do not deprive of her an initiative, encourage its progress. In a modern rhythm of life often women occupy the leading roles. In life it very much needs ability to listen to others opinion, ability to make a compromise, to get on in any collective.
7. Identity. It, perhaps, the most difficult of all points. To reveal unique lines in the child, to manage to emphasize them, without breaking his personality. Support in the child all that is in him positive, without trying to arrange and reconstruct him after the own fashion. Do not try to satisfy the ambitions and dreams at his expense.