Children from three to five years have a complete picture of the world, and they often ask questions of world outlook character, than nonplus parents. Who I from where I appeared where the grandfather, etc. left am – the child wants to understand himself, to learn that he waits for him in the future, what his role in life. Before answering such question, define for yourself a concept of life, what sense you put in this word.
Instruction
1. Life which was thought up by people each person puts the outlook which lies out of words in an abstract concept. Great minds of mankind thought up many concepts of meaning of life – to save the soul, to satisfy the requirements, to achieve the power. Someone adheres to someone else's theories, someone develops the philosophy. When the child begins to ask such questions, it is impossible to wave away and be behind daily affairs, be prepared for a question. For the three-year-old kid the conversation has to consist of several simple and clear phrases. Besides, it is necessary to remember that parental installations can become vital philosophy at already grown up child.
2. Making walks, note manifestations of life everywhere: as kidneys bulked up, the leaf was dismissed, flowers blossomed, the child, etc. was born. Your reasonings that life is he, will help the child to realize themselves and most to answer the questions further.
3. Impart respect for life and in other form. Do not allow the child to offend animals, to press small insects, to pick flowers, and then to throw out them, accustoming to compassion to others, you impart love and respect for the life.
4. Talking to the child, do not use a phrase that in adulthood everything is bad, difficult, here you will grow up, you learn, etc. So you promote formation in the head of the child of a terrible picture about adulthood. He can grow up the inactive, timid child who is afraid to live.
5. Ideas of children of life change with age, according to those purposes which face an age stage therefore induce the child to return to this subject.
6. Someone will tell that life, this observance of rules, study. Someone that well made career or series of tests. There can be life, this education of children and good strong family. Talk to the child on vital subjects, it you help it to appreciate life and to understand that life is a question and search of the answer to it. Life is not limited to implementation of programs which are put before us by society. Life is also understanding that is in each of us.