Many parents face the same problem - the child does not want to be engaged. At everyone the tactics of education about it is developed. You should not strain strongly the child lessons, but also to force it is necessary to study too. The main thing - all has to be moderately.
Instruction
1. That the child began to be engaged, it is necessary to put a little to it efforts. If your child sits at another matters, but only not at lessons, ask him when it is going to start them.
2. Offer the help, at preparation for school. He will see that you are interested in it and he will want to show what he is capable of.
3. On arrival from school, you do not speak to it that it sat down at tasks at once. It just came, and rest is necessary for it. For now, feed him, ask, how are you at school what estimates.
4. Do not blackmail the child at all, you do not speak to him ""make lessons, and I will buy you that you will want"", over time he will begin to blackmail you. If to him not to come off the computer in any way, let it know that if he is not engaged, then it is necessary to say goodbye to it for a while.
5. When you on time understand that it is already time for it to be engaged, too be engaged in some business, for example begin to read the book. He will see that you are busy and he will want to be engaged too looking at you. Switch off the TV, music that it did not distract it.
6. Let know to the child that at first lessons, and then only all the rest. If in the diary bad marks began to appear more often at it, then it is necessary to employ the tutor. He will help it to deal with the necessary subject, will explain as well as that, and, perhaps, at the child there will be desire to study. If at it everything well turns out with lessons, then the incentive will appear to study and be engaged.