Children are full of energy and interest in the world around. However a variety of computer games often distracts them from reality. Your task is to find the interesting and developing hobby and to interest in it the child.
Instruction
1. Already at early age individual abilities and interests are shown. The talent needs to be developed since childhood, helping the child to decide on the choice of a hobby, to give it the chance to find the circle suitable his hobbies. Show an initiative in such serious question. Tell the child what circles and sections exist. Ask, than he would like to be engaged.
2. Do not insist, but carefully direct the child to the purpose. The main thing that you have to understand, - your child though small, but already has the addictions and the minimum ideas of life. It is not necessary to force it to be engaged in uninteresting business. You should not embody the unrealized dreams in this little man. Children possess more keen intuition, than adults, and sometimes know better what suits them in life. The pressure and adherence to principles you can spoil the relations with the child only.
3. Before sending the kid to any given section, ask him why he is interested in this occupation. Often children do not know where they go, and are fond of stories by the peers. That your child did not comprehend disappointment, try to tell as much as possible it about this occupation, about difficulties which the child can face. He has to put efforts to receive result. But if the child has no ability to this activity, he should not be upset and lose self-confidence.
4. When you together decide on the choice of a circle, at first go together with the child, but do not control it. He has to feel your support, but not persistence. The child himself has to learn to get on with new collective, to master classes, new to it. Always support the kid in progress and failures, but you should not overpraise him, it is better to put others. Try to give an objective assessment to its activity, but show that you love and you appreciate him not its achievements in a circle or in study.
5. If at the child it turns out to master the difficult moments not at once – try together with him. Work musical scale, help it to dance or do sports. Be near. Try to inspire the kid, telling him about the people who made great progress in his hobby – for example, about Olympic champions. Show to the child that at due effort everything is possible, but do not compare it to idols that it did not feel worse than others.
6. Never you become angry about the kid if at him it is impossible to achieve success. Allow it to be independent – at any time he can refuse this hobby, but it has to be the serious considered act. Try to switch attention of the child to an opposite type of activity, maybe, in this case it will prove better and will find vital calling.