It is so simple to apologize if stepped someone on a foot in the bus, and so it is hard to say ""Forgive!"" to the loved one. In our culture of the last time there was the wrong representation that wrong to be humiliating. And we seldom apologize to relatives, including it weakness. Though in life all exactly on the contrary: only the strong person can recognize mistakes and confess in them to the loved one. And therefore it is necessary to know how to receive this forgiveness which will lead to trust and love between the loving people.
Instruction
1. If your mistake is insignificant, it is possible and to fool about: to fall on knees, begging for forgiveness, to play the whole interlude and to reduce everything to a joke. But if the fault is high, then jokes are, of course, not appropriate. Then it is necessary to think over seriously each step and each word not to do new mistakes, having aggravated old.
2. Possibly, it is necessary to think over at first ""bribery"" of the loved one at least slightly to soften a situation.
3. The attempt to make amends will look only attempt if the words of recognition of fault and repentance do not sound. It is already following most important step. Think over all words, everything that should be told. It will be difficult, but it should be made if you want to keep the relations with the loved one. As shows experience, forgiveness comes not at once, sometimes drags on for the rest of life if your offense was serious. But if you love each other, the relations will surely gradually be restored. The main thing that both of you wanted it.