All want reciprocity – the harmonious love relations, trust, love and respect are considered as the basic principles of long-term communications. Success in love can achieve only in common – two have to participate in creation of the relations.
Instruction
1. The question of trust and frankness is very important in creation of the strong relations. You have to be most open before each other – state everything that disturbs you, you do not save discontent, ask the partner for the help.
2. Do not refuse romanticism even if you together already long enough. Continue to surprise each other with unexpected appointments, romantic trips, walks, etc. Do pleasant surprises, you give gifts, organize dinners and try to surprise the partner, especially in a bed. Everyday issues can break even the strongest unions therefore periodically arrange rest from a routine. Refresh your feelings with full-time employment over them – remember what they were at the beginning of your relations.
3. Always give compliments to darling, you praise his achievements, express its advantages, especially in the presence of other people. Do not afford the offensive and humiliating attitude towards the partner.
4. The concept of freedom for each person is individual – to you better to find out these nuances at an initial stage of the relations. Remember that to the partner as well as you, need personal space, and recognize behind it the right for a periodic privacy.
5. Develop the algorithm of behavior in case of a quarrel. If you quickly "begin to boil", then you should calm down at first – walk, leave to the neighboring room, postpone a heavy conversation for some time. Only then you can start a solution – always openly state the claims, patiently listen to arguments of the partner and you learn to come to a consensus, conceding each other. Learn to respect opinion of the partner, to reach compromise and to resolve controversial issues by dialogue, but not scandals with showdowns and the statement of offenses. You will be able to achieve mutual understanding only if you concede each other.
6. The fidelity is a necessary aspect of strong and confidential relationship. You are loyal to darling and be honest with him. Do not deceive the partner even in trifles – a lie, even for the good, will not improve your relationship and sooner or later everything will open.