After there passed the rose and candy stage, there are thoughts of joint life with the elect. Constant trips from one house to another, everyday transportation of things, necessary for life, bothered. There is a wish for constancy, but not meetings in the evenings and lonely return to the empty room. Especially as the relations already developed into something gentle and trembling.
Instruction
1. Strongly you should not tighten the period of vstrechaniye, it can develop into a habit, and then the guy can not want to live together if and so everything suits it. It is necessary to begin with discussion of how it would be convenient and pleasant to wake up every morning together, to sleep under one blanket, to luxuriate long in a bed. He gradually will begin to think of it, and the idea will look quite attractive.
2. It is very difficult to decide on serious changes, it is necessary to find housing, to transport things and to adjust life. To live with parents – not an exit, at early stages the joint life of couple often breaks up because of intervention of parents. The partner who got into foreign family will always feel awkwardness. Other business if you meet year or more and you know that in case of misunderstanding the guy will take not the part of parents, and yours.
3. To significant components of joint life the budget is, and it is worth discussing who will be engaged in purchase of products, to pay utilities. It is necessary to sacrifice unnecessary bulky things, addictions. If you already agreed about cohabitation, it is necessary to learn to make together decisions, to get on in one territory and to agree. Any acts have to be followed by respect, warmth and trust to each other.
4. Discuss your addictions with the guy. Everyone has certain habits, for example, run in the mornings or a dream till one o'clock in the afternoon on the weekend. Agree to do it or in common, or to try not to interfere with each other. If the guy the heavy smoker, and is unpleasant to you a smell of cigarette smoke, mention it that it came to a balcony or to the landing. If you love animals, try to talk concerning acquisition of a kitten, a hamster or a doggie, joint care for it will dilute the relations.