Each woman marrying especially on great and strong love, sincerely trusts and hopes: the husband will love its one! And the thought of treason will not even come to his mindhis mind. Alas, the reality sometimes is far from these iridescent dreams. Many wives suddenly learn that their husbands to them are incorrect. And before them there is a hard question: how to be farther? To get divorced or keep family?
Instruction
1. Each deceived wife resolves this issue in own way, depending on many circumstances: depth and sincerity of feelings to the husband, the nature, temperament, the imparted norms and foundations (including, religious), financial position, presence and age of children, etc. In most cases, she forgives the husband. But how to arrive to you? How again to believe the husband after treason?
2. Remember the words of the great wise man Confucius: "The strong and clever person blames for the problems and failures of, weak and silly – others". It is so easy – to shift fault for treason of the husband to artful "temptress"! Much heavier and more painful to recognize: if the husband was fond of "temptress" if he found in her something like that, than you cannot brag – first of all, you are guilty of it.
3. If you cannot restore trust in the relations, constantly repeat to yourself: "Time I suspect the husband of treason, so subconsciously I admit own insolvency, the inability to be for it the most favourite, the most desired and attractive!" And once the husband loved you one. Once for him there were no other women. To return love and passion of the man in your forces.
4. Do not feel sorry for yourself and do not put forward the following arguments: "Earlier we were younger and more beautiful, and now, after the birth of children, after all these house efforts where to us to compete in appeal with young seductresses!" Cast away similar thoughts, it is, to put it mildly, weak arguments. First, you anyway have to watch yourself and maintain the beauty and female appeal. Secondly, the sweet temper of the wife, the comfortable, cozy situation in the house created by it than external data is far more valuable to many men.
5. Firmly you remember, the more willingly the husband comes back home, the it is less than chances that "will pull him on the party". Therefore you should use the best efforts that the house became for the husband really warm, cozy and benevolent. Then thoughts of possible treason will cease to come to your mindyour mind, and the trust to the husband will be regained.