It is so much years together. You did not think in any way that one day everything can change. The husband behaves somehow strange, and the doubt creeps in: but whether he found whom on the party? Many men think that they can conduct a double life, and the girlfriend of life also will not guess it. But the loving heart feels a dirty trick, and women's investigations of an ukhishchrenna and are exact.
Instruction
1. Realize for what you need to find the fact of treason and the mistress? As we know, who looks for, that will find. The woman, if loves the man, in secret hopes that after "conducting investigation" the life will return to the former course. That, actually, favourite also did not think to go to the party. Also he only loves it one. And everything can occur in a different way. In case of confirmation of fears whether you will be ready to feel pain, a shock, disappointment? It will be necessary to begin to live in a different way. "Knowledge" can change a lot of things. Perhaps, you want to compare yourself to "it" and to understand in what it better? At once stop yourself: the woman chooses the partner from a position "better", the man gets the relations with the mistress only because it "another", not similar to you.
2. Observe behavior of the husband. If you long ago together, then already know its habits and character. When the man had "an optional activity", and he in every possible way hides it, it by all means will come to light through tension. The husband can become too irritable or excessively reserved. He will painfully react to viewing its mail or messages in the mobile phone. Meeting with two women at the same time often oversets plans and arrangements, it is heavy to it to plan time which you will spend together. The man can have less often with you sex, not answer the phone calls at you, avoid a joint sit-round gathering with mutual friends. All these moments can demonstrate that the man had one more woman.
3. Talk to the husband. Tell him that you are concerned by his behavior and current situation. Give to him those feelings that you test. Try to find a constructive way out together.
4. If the husband denies everything, but the facts it is available, it is possible to get as proofs to itself into his mail or to see the mobile phone. As a rule, if someone is on the party, then traces are. On the found phone number it is easy to find the person. On social networks it is possible to look how his mistress looks. You can even call her and communicate friendly: you have general subjects.
5. Communicate to mutual friends. As a rule, there is a lot of the well-wishers seeking to open eyes on the events and to tell all plain truth. Perhaps, you will be lucky, and they will even tell who is "she".
6. Employ the detective. Now services of shadowing people are rendered by the profile agencies or private detectives, many of them even have the license for this type of activity. In several days you will have proofs or denials in the form of photos and a proof.